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Angela A's avatar

The two most popular crushes for any budding lesbian born in the 70s: Kristy McNichol and Nancy McKeon. I was totally enthralled with their onscreen tomboy characters.

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Jessemy's avatar

Omg I just googled Facts of Life this morning as a hairstyle reference fir my daughter! Two half ponytails, Oxford shirt, sweater vest!

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Angela A's avatar

Halloween costume? 😃

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Jessemy's avatar

Yaaaas

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Jessemy's avatar

She's at a private school so she gets to wear the sweater/shirt.

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Bruce N's avatar

Gillian Anderson in the X-Files

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Mary Armstrong's avatar

Olivia Newton John. Rip my first confusing crush. Followed by Henry Thomas in ET.

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Jessemy's avatar

Nice range!

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Gabrielle G's avatar

Judd Nelson circa Breakfast Club hands down 🤤

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Monika's avatar

River Phoenix post 'Stand By Me.' I couldn't believe it when he died. I thought he would be young and beautiful forever.

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Monika's avatar

And Ke Huy Quan who played 'Data' in 'The Goonies!' I recently heard an interview with him, and after decades of not acting, he is apparently making a come back!

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Jessemy's avatar

Christopher Reeve in Superman. He was my boyfriend, and I called him "Christy Teeth."

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Jessemy's avatar

5 years old or so.

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Patricia's avatar

Rick Springfield, Davy Jones, Leif Garrett, Andy Gibb… oh my aching heart ❤️

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Nina's avatar

Absolute first: Davy Jones from the Monkees > Debbie Harry > John Taylor from Duran Duran.

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Berkeley Busby's avatar

always went for the "girl next door" type so ...Valerie Bertinelli.

her One Day at a Time character even had a girl-next-door name - "Barbara Cooper".

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Janis's avatar

Paul McCartney!… I was 5… whoever of my sister and neighborhood kids got to pick Paul was the winner. John was second , George and Ringo next

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Jessemy's avatar

Agree with that ranking.

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Michellepollino's avatar

Tatum O'Neil in Bad News Bears. I would open up Tiger Beat mag to her pic and place it underneath my pillow and kiss her before I would go to bed.

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Dorothy Dupree's avatar

I was a 90s girl so the pop boy bands were EVERYTHING!! I think Lance Bass was actually my first big crush!

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Natalie's avatar

I was a hater through the whole boy band phenomenon, but hooray for former 90s girls!

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Natalie's avatar

Will Wheaton. We watched ST:NG every evening with dinner, and I realized pretty quickly that I enjoyed watching him. I've rewatched the series since then and understand now what all the haters were annoyed about, but, well, the heart wants what it wants.

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LL's avatar

It was either Kevin Arnold or Doogie Howaer MD. But truly first true crush? David Duchovny.

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Thia's avatar

Oh Fox 😍!

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David Rensin's avatar

Tuesday Weld as Thalia Menninger on the many lives of Dobie Gillis. But at that age I wasn’t thinking about celebrities. Or that she would be the Inspiration for most all of the women I liked in the future. I just loved her look. I was 10. Maybe 11.

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jody's avatar

Charlton Heston in El Cid.

I was born in 1956.

He had a scene with Sophia Loren in a barn. I remember them lying in the hay. I remember her tracing his profile with her fingertips.

I fell in love with him.

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Mark Sundstrom's avatar

I can't remember first crush, but a moment's thought made me think of Geena Davis, and that would have been late 80s, and the movies would have been "Earth Girls are Easy" and "Accidental Tourist", to start with. Maybe I'll think of some others as the day goes along.

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Janis's avatar

Not Thelma and Louise ?

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Mark Sundstrom's avatar

Oh, definitely yes; I just mentioned the two movies that introduced Geena Davis to me. Speaking of "Thelma and Louise" -- I see it's on HBO Max so plan to give it a watch pretty soon, as I've not seen it in decades.

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Janis's avatar

Love that movie… my introduction to Brad Pitt… enjoy !

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rosmarinaus's avatar

Ooh John Taylor! But then there’s Bryan Ferry...

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Jessemy's avatar

Rio still gives me chills by the way!

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Tammy B's avatar

Can’t remember his name right now, but the guy who played the ghost on the Ghost & Mrs. Muir TV show. Also Adam Cartwright from Bonanza and Nick Barkley from the Big Valley. All these were ‘69 - ‘70ish when I was 9 or 10. I never went for the Donny Osmond/ David Cassidy crew like the rest of my cohort.

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Mjohns036's avatar

This is a little weird, but it was definitely David Bowie from “The Labyrinth.” That eyeliner and hair!

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Jessemy's avatar

Nancy's first crush? 1970 or so?

-Newman, obviously

-McQueen

-Kristofferson

They all seem like they'd walk in that rangy way Nancy loves!

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